Christmas party ideas!๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’‹๐ŸŽ…


In the run up to Christmas we may be thinking about having a get togethers with friends and family, maybe a fun night in or going out. Some of us might even throw a massive Christmas party ๐Ÿ˜€ย I have made a list of some cool ideas to get your imagination flowing. Whatever you decide to do I hope you have fun ! Merry Christmas guys ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ„

A Christmas’s pampering party at home ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿ’–

Invite your friends over for a night of complete pampering such as face masks, nail painting etc. A bit of champagne and watch a movie in your Xmas pj’s. You can even hire out some beauty therapists or mobile hairdressers to come along for an hour to do hair and fake tans!ย  Get your friend to bring over food and chocolates to share or all chip in for a big takeaway then laugh the night away.

Gingerbread house competitionย ๐Ÿ˜‚๐ŸŽ

Get a whole load of Gingerbread house making kits from eBay or the high street and throw a Gingerbread house making party ! This one is perfect for kids to get involved too, so invite your friends round and tell them to bring the kids. I have done this as a child and it was amazing, I loved it and was kept busy for hours ๐Ÿ˜‚ So if you want some peace from the kids leave them to it! Also with any competition there has to be a prize !

Night out at a karaoke bar ๐Ÿ˜‚๐ŸŒน๐ŸŽ„

Sing the night away with all your favourite Christmas songs and have a laugh. Get dressed up in matching outfits and get out the camera to make some christmas memories ๐Ÿ“ท

Night out at the casino ๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ’ต๐ŸŽ‰

Maybe not the most responsible night out at Christmas time as we need our money for presents but what can beat a night filled with laughs and gambling ? Get the girls together and head to your nearest casino and go crazy!ย  Christmas is only once a year after all ๐Ÿ˜‚

Christmas movie marathon ๐ŸŽฌ๐Ÿ“บ๐Ÿ˜‚

Get out the beanbags and the food and watch all the old Christmas films together. Nice and cosy !


Missing people ๐Ÿ‘ค๐Ÿ‘€

Welcome to the missing people page on my blog where images and information on missing children and adults are displayed in the hope that someone will recogniseย  them or have info that may help.

So many people go missing each year in the UK and abroad, the actual numbers may shock you!ย  Some are runaways, suicides , murders or abductions. It could happen to anyone. It could be your brother or mother next.

So if you are a blog owner please create a page like this and display missing people to show the audience that visits your website, you never know who they know.

If you suspect you know anybodys whereabouts on this page please contact the official investigation lines, such as police and the families Facebook page.

Sandy Davidson


On 23 April 1976, Sandy Davidson was in his garden with his little sister Donna playing with their dog. They were being looked after by their grandparents, who had gone inside the house at the time. The gate flew open and their dog ran out. Sandy ran out trying to catch him. His sister Donna says that all she can remember was Sandy motioning for her to go too but she refused and went into the house to tell their grandparents.

Work ground to a halt on the new building estate nearby to search for Sandy but nobody has seen him since.

The most believed scenario is that there was a man delivering leaflets around the time of Sandy’s disappearance and that he could have opened the gate and taken Sandy. Sandy’s mother Margaret and father Phillip believe that it was a lonely man wanting a son.

Another theory is that he ran down to the river five minutes away and followed the dog in, and subsequently drowned.

Lisa Irwin


Lisa irwin went missing from her home in kansas while her mother slept. Her father returned home from work to discover the front door opened, he immediately checked on his partner and baby. Baby lisa was not in her crib! A window was open and a few lights were on. Lists mother says she put lisa to bed and everyone was closed locked and lights off. There were also items stolen such as cellphones.

Initially the police believed lisas mother had done something to her baby or family members were involved in her disappearance somehow. Lisas parents had a charge on there stolen credit card for a fake birth certificate on the Dark Web which they claim they did not place. Lisas parents claim they have nothing to do with their missing daughters disappearance and believe in Thierry heart she is alive. A few people reported seeing a man on the day lisa went missing carrying a baby and other leads. Lisas parents do not like they way the case has been handled with many missed opportunities for investigation.

Charlene Downes


Charlene Downesย (born c.ย 1989) disappeared on 1 November 2003, when she was 14, from her home town ofย Blackpool, a seaside town inย north-west England. She was last seen in an area of the town centre that contained several takeaway and fast-food units.ย Lancashire Constabulary, the police force investigating her disappearance, believe that she was murdered within hours of the last sighting.[2]

The trials brought to light whatย Julie Bindeldescribed inย The Guardianย as “endemic child sexual abuse and prostitution” in the town.[4]ย The police believe that, for a protracted period before her disappearance, Downes had been the victim ofย child sexual abuseย at the hands of one or more men.[4][5]ย They interviewed 3,000 people and found that she and other girls in the area had been “swapping sex for food, cigarettes and affection”,[4]ย a form ofย child sexual exploitationย known asย localised grooming. It is thought that 60 local girls may have been targeted.[6]Two men were tried in May 2007โ€”one for Downes’ murder, the other for helping to dispose of her bodyโ€”but the jury failed to reach a verdict. A re-trial was scheduled, but in April 2008 the accused were released because of concerns about the evidence compiled by Lancashire Constabulary.[3]

On 1 August 2017, a 51-year-old man was arrested on suspicion of murdering Downes and was released two days later.ย A ยฃ100,000 reward remains on offer for information leading to the conviction of her killer(s) or the recovery of her body.

Charlene Downes is presumed dead although there is no evidence that she is dead.

If you believe you are a missing person or are illegally adoptedย  :

Do not be scared, take a breath and think things through. Does your parents have baby images of you ? Do you have information on where your parents supposedly adopted you ? Does it not add up !

Nowadays with technology there are easy ways of finding out about your true origins, such as dna kits!ย  You can easily take one these behind your families back and not inform them of you doing so. Many of these companies take a few weeks to give you your results and they also give you an online profile to link you to distant cousins. Some people discover that they have sisters they didn’t know about or a heritage from an country they never visited.

Five of the most popular DNA test kits out there:ย AncestryDNA,ย 23andMe,ย MyHeritage,ย Living DNA,ย andย Family Tree DNAย 




Does your girlfriend have narcissistic personality disorder?

Maybe you have a girlfriend or are searching for one at the moment, it can hard enough getting to know someone never mind figuring out if they have a personality disorder or skeletons in the closet. Whatever you do, donโ€™t fall for a fake narcissist girlfriend it will save you a lot of bother and heartache. So below are some red flags to look out for.


๐ŸšงRed flagsย ๐Ÿšง

In her past relationships, at work or romantic she is always doing all the work, the only one putting in an effort, she is holding the company together or the relationship. She can go on and on about how she worked long hours while someone else came in late. Past relationship failures are never her fault. She always shifts blame.

A major red flag is that it will always be about her, her plans, her issues. It will be a one sided relationship where you serve her needs while yours get discarded. If you try and confront her she will always have an excuse. Healthy relationships work when two people respect each other and fill each others needs of course sometimes girlfriends will be selfish and turn on you but narcissist girlfriends will be like this 24 /7. The will be very selfish, boasting about achievements even tiny small ones. The world revolves around her!ย  ๐ŸŒŽ

She has total absence of anxiety, fear, and worry where there otherwise should be. Her emotions donโ€™t add up, she reacts in a non empathetic way when you open up about an issue or something thatโ€™s upsetting you. She will never comfort you and if she does it will feel fake and forced. She will only pretend to be emotional if there is something in it for her.

You may have issues or a problem you want to discuss with her but she will not listen until she has finished what she wants to do, her plans always come first. If you have an issue with her behaviour and you pull her up, she will say your over sensitive or turn it around into being all your fault. Narcissist girlfriends will never talk things through, they never accept that they make mistakes.

If you tell her that you love her and deeply care for her she will use this to her advantage. She will use you got money and gifts. You will worship her instead of having a normal give and take relationship. Normal relationships have balance and itโ€™s not just one person benefiting. Narcissist girlfriends want all the benefits, she will make you feel insecure and hurt your feelings again and again.

Very suddenly becomes disinterested in you and becomes annoyed at you first wanting to continue the relationship that they created, almost like a personality change.
Gives you the silent treatment out of the blue like they have just forgotten you with no reasonable explanation. Often this is called the โ€œdiscardโ€ phase.

They have extremely high expectations for fidelity, respect, and adoration. After the idealization phase, they will give none of this back to you. They will cheat, lie, insult, and degrade. But you are expected to remain perfect.

They have different personas for different people -transforming their personality to match various audiences. When they slip and accidentally use the wrong mask for you. You will start to feel that nothing they say or do really adds up ! It can be very scary but donโ€™t worry itโ€™s better to get out the fake relationship early than continue and be miserable.

Ex-partners will likely be labeled jealous, bipolar, or some other nasty smear. They will speak about you the same way to their next partner.

*Narcissistic personality disorder is a real disorder and is something to be taken seriously, lack of empathy in relationships can lead to very bad problems. Itโ€™s healthy to argue and disagree with your girlfriend. If you think your girlfriend may have a personality disorder read up on it and then decide how to move forward ๐Ÿ˜‰